Practical Ideas For Help and Encourage Friends With Cancer
Here are some ideas that I believe you will find helpful.
First of all...be specific. A willingness to help in any way she needs is often overwhelming. She may not have the energy to address and think through what all her needs are. Take the time to look at her home, family, medical and social needs. Then give her a small list of things you can either do or help with.
Second, if you have a personal care skill such as hairdressing, manicuring or massaging, offer your services for a session free of charge. Come to her home if at all possible. Any of these things will delight her! All of us know there is nothing like a little pampering when we don't feel our best.
If your time is limited or you live a distance from your friend...the following list of items can be given individually or in a lovely gift basket.
It is wise to choose lotions and potions that are fragrance free since many cancer patients have a low tolerance to odors during treatment. You might also want to ask a family member if she has any skin sensitivities or allergies. Include organic products as much as possible. Because they do not contain chemicals and preservatives they will be better tolerated.
1. Nightcaps: homemade or purchased
This is a wonderful gift for your friend if her treatment will cause her to lose her hair. Be sure the fabric is soft and washable and that any elastic is covered and not too tight. Ask her what pretty color or pattern she would like if you are making the nightcap...or surprise her!
2. Nightgowns or robes that open in the front
Ease in dressing is extremely important both during any hospital stays and once she is home.
3. Extra moisturizing body lotion
Remember to keep the ingredients fragrance free and organic if possible
4. A natural bristle hair brush that has extra soft bristles
Again, this is if your friend will lose her hair with treatment. She (or you) can lightly brush her head to stimulate healthy new growth AND it feels great!
5. Purchase a copy of Beauty During the Cancer Journey
It is a simple read where she will find support and help in beauty related issues
6. Lastly, how about purchasing a beautiful bouquet of silk flowers to match the colors of her home?
She won't have an allergic reaction to them and no one will have to remember to water them!
First of all...be specific. A willingness to help in any way she needs is often overwhelming. She may not have the energy to address and think through what all her needs are. Take the time to look at her home, family, medical and social needs. Then give her a small list of things you can either do or help with.
Second, if you have a personal care skill such as hairdressing, manicuring or massaging, offer your services for a session free of charge. Come to her home if at all possible. Any of these things will delight her! All of us know there is nothing like a little pampering when we don't feel our best.
If your time is limited or you live a distance from your friend...the following list of items can be given individually or in a lovely gift basket.
It is wise to choose lotions and potions that are fragrance free since many cancer patients have a low tolerance to odors during treatment. You might also want to ask a family member if she has any skin sensitivities or allergies. Include organic products as much as possible. Because they do not contain chemicals and preservatives they will be better tolerated.
1. Nightcaps: homemade or purchased
This is a wonderful gift for your friend if her treatment will cause her to lose her hair. Be sure the fabric is soft and washable and that any elastic is covered and not too tight. Ask her what pretty color or pattern she would like if you are making the nightcap...or surprise her!
2. Nightgowns or robes that open in the front
Ease in dressing is extremely important both during any hospital stays and once she is home.
3. Extra moisturizing body lotion
Remember to keep the ingredients fragrance free and organic if possible
4. A natural bristle hair brush that has extra soft bristles
Again, this is if your friend will lose her hair with treatment. She (or you) can lightly brush her head to stimulate healthy new growth AND it feels great!
5. Purchase a copy of Beauty During the Cancer Journey
It is a simple read where she will find support and help in beauty related issues
6. Lastly, how about purchasing a beautiful bouquet of silk flowers to match the colors of her home?
She won't have an allergic reaction to them and no one will have to remember to water them!
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